Unconditional Love.

In my deep sleep I saw a dream a girl was sitting in a room with her parents, I guess she is of around 4 to 5 years, at that time a boy came in side the room, her parents told her to no to talk with that boy, because yesterday  he destroyed her toys. but he girl didn't care what the parents were telling to her she just went to the boy and hugged him. suddenly the mother told oh ! this is the unconditional love between these children. So this word provoked me to think. I asked my self what is unconditional love. what about the love between parents and their children. I just asked myself do we love our children without condition or we put few conditions or demands, if he didn't meet our demand still do I have the same love for my children.

Most of the time we tell our children if you get 90 marks in this exam I will give you a bicycle or dress or watch etc. this may not be a wrong conduct but if he or she didn't score 90 what we do how we treat them is most important. Many time when speaking with others we tell that I have all the faith on my children that, they will not commit any mistake which makes me shameful. Yes it is good to have faith or trust on our children but if they commit any mistake which made me shameful in the society do I stand for my children or I loose trust on them.

These all are very sensitive questions we need to ask ourselves and start loving everyone without preconditions.

I think there are very few people who can love without conditions. Practicing this is very difficult but not impossible.